Break the ice

Why Do We Say "Break the Ice"?

If you've ever been in an awkward situation, someone might have tried to "break the ice." But what does this phrase mean, and where does it come from? Let’s find out!

What Does It Mean?

"Breaking the ice" means doing something to make people feel more comfortable in a social setting, especially when they are shy or don’t know each other well. For example:

• “At the party, they played a fun game to break the ice.”

The Origins of the Phrase

The phrase has its roots in the world of shipping!

• In the old days, ships carrying goods would often get stuck in frozen waters during winter. Smaller, stronger ships called "icebreakers" would be sent ahead to smash through the ice, clearing a path.

• Over time, this idea of “breaking through” a barrier was used metaphorically to describe starting conversations or easing tension.

How to Use It Today

The idiom is widely used in everyday English. Here are a few examples:

• “The teacher told a funny joke to break the ice on the first day of class.”

• “We played a name game at the workshop to break the ice.”

Other Phrases About Starting or Ending

Here are some more idioms that talk about beginnings or breaking through awkward moments:

• "Hit it off": When you immediately get along well with someone.
  (“We hit it off right away and became best friends.”)

• "Get the ball rolling": To start something, like a project or conversation.
  (“Let’s get the ball rolling on this new idea.”)

• "Call it a day": To stop working or finish something for the day.
  (“We’ve done enough for today; let’s call it a day.”)

Try It!
Think about a time when you had to "break the ice" in a new situation. Write a short paragraph about what happened and how you felt. Share it with others!